Some of them, like my oldest son, are adopted into their foster family. That's how it should go, when the need for adoption arises. Thats what we believe in: concurrent planning. Wholeheartedly supporting safe reunification while also being ready and willing to adopt if the need should arise. Some of them get that. Some of them, like my other son, have many options at first. So small and so cute, families fight over the file, thinking "that kid will look great on our holiday